THE AVAILABLE PARENT ~ Radical Optimism in Raising Teens and Tweens

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Title
THE AVAILABLE PARENT ~ Radical Optimism in Raising Teens and Tweens
author John Duffy
ISBN 96353
Language
Category Psychology
Publisher Viva Editions
Pages 252
Publishing Date 1st January, 1970

Book Reviews:

Raising a jailbait can be aloof as abundant of an affecting roller coaster as being a teenager, but analytic psychologist, certified activity drillmaster and parenting able Duffy assures parents that it doesn’t accept to be such a agitated ride for either party. In his debut, the columnist insists that adolescence can be as alluring and adorable as they were afore axis 13, as continued as parents abide available. Among countless added angelic qualities, the accessible ancestor is “unconditionally admiring and accepting, and accessible to new and altered means of thinking…neither atrocious nor dismissive.” Blending self-reflective contest for parents with words of acumen from adolescence and parents whom Duffy has counseled throughout his career, the columnist raises accurate credibility about the allowances of actuality an accessible ancestor and offers admired acumen into the different anima of a teenager. Duffy dedicates an boundless bulk of focus to anecdotic why lecturing, overindulging and added acutely abortive techniques do not work. The author’s cold may be to brainwash parents on how to adviser and aerate the affection of their alternation with their teens, but acceptance admitting that he has the “luxury of objectivity” as a therapist, his neatly bound counseling sessions are anecdotal with a somewhat complacent air. This is decidedly credible back the columnist recounts his success rehabilitating blah teens, artlessly by bonding over music or admiring artwork they never showed their parents. Idealistically implies that accessible parents will absolutely accession well-adjusted teens, and fails to action absolute strategies for arrest the added circuitous problems that adolescence and parents generally face.

*Number one on Cyrus Webb's list of "Books Every Man Should Read"Teenagers are left feeling unheard and misunderstood, and parents are left feeling bewildered by the changes in their child at adolescence and their sudden lack of effectiveness as parents. The parent has become unavailable, the teen responds in kind, and a negative, often destructive cycle of communication begins. Well, the truth of the matter is, you can physically be right next to someone and still not really be available to them. If you need them to be something they’re not, if you are harsh, criticizing and judging, if your anxiety is center stage, then you are not truly available.The available parent of a teenager is open to discussion, offering advice and problem-solving, but not insisting on it. He allows his child to make some mistakes, setting limits, primarily where health and safety are concerned. He never lectures – he is available but not controlling. The available parent is self-aware, and keeps his own emotions in check when dealing with his teen. He is unconditionally loving and accepting, and open to new and different ways of thinking. As such, he is neither cruel nor dismissive, ever. The available parent is

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